During my next pregnancy, my partner and I chose a name that we considered to be unisex: Tyler. We really liked the sound of it. We debated between Elizabeth and Veronica for a second name and decided on Veronica, a lovely feminine name. If Tyler had been born a boy, her name would have been Marcus or Lucas. When I really think about it, her name really does suit her so far.
So there we had our beautiful newborn daughter, Tyler Veronica. When the hospital staff brought the birth certificate in for a signature, I was breastfeeding. They asked my husband to verify that the "address and everything" was correct, then sign it. He checked over the certificate and signed it.
A few weeks later, the filed birth certificate arrived in the mail. And there it was... Male. It had never even occurred to us to check that box. You figure the hospital knows whether your child is male or female, right?! Well I guess the attending doctor or even nurse isn't really the one filing the papers. Whoever did the clerical work probably saw the name "Tyler" and simply assumed this baby was a boy. Tsk tsk.
It was actually a pretty simple solution, at first anyway. I took the birth certificate to my local clinic (associated with the hospital). They photocopied it and even let me keep the original! A few weeks later, a new birth certificate arrived and they had changed her sex to Female. Great! Problem solved. Well, almost.
The Social Security Department still thinks Tyler is a boy. When she was about 10yo, I finally took her personally into the local office with both birth certificates. Would you believe that the papers (and her attendance!) weren't proof enough? They asked for a letter on school letterhead stating that she was enrolled as a girl. Excuse me?? What if I were still homeschooling her? Ridiculous. In fact, I got the letter from the school, but didn't make it back to the SS office.
I don't suppose it is even a big deal... unless there is a draft. Do you think they'd ever draft females? All in the name of sexual equality, right?
With a new husband and a new daughter, we went with another beautifully feminine name: Sasha Bella. (No, this name does not have anything to do with that popular vampire series!)
All this as a warning to you, be cautious in your gender neutrality. By all means, give your baby whatever name seems right. Just make sure when you check over the birth certificate, check over ALL the blanks!