Day 250 - Sunday - September 7
My friendly neighbor is a contractor. He came over to "help" me build a chicken coop from pallets. (Don't worry, there will be posts dedicated to this project!) He was showing Sasha pictures of his granddaughter.
My mother thought she was fine, perhaps suffering a dip in her blood sugar. She was eating peanut butter, but she hadn't swallowed it. She was slurring her speech. She already had trouble moving her arms and couldn't move her legs, due to polio complications, so I couldn't even go by those. Though she still insisted she was fine, I discussed her symptoms with her and told her I was concerned she had suffered a stroke. During my literal interrogation of her, I paused... and considered her perspective. Her three adult children refusing to let her have her tea and asking her tons of questions. I hugged her. I asked if she had any reason I should not call 9-1-1. She did not. I called.
That was a very rough season. She had her stroke on Saturday, after I had gone home from work as her Personal Service Assistant. The following Tuesday, we finally got our positive pregnancy test (with Spencer). The following Sunday was Mother's Day, the one on which my ex-husband passed away. Two months after her stroke, my mother passed away. Days later, I was told there was something genetically wrong with my son - right before I went to identify her body for cremation. All I wanted to do was call my mom! None of this paragraph is the point of this post, though.
You can't go through life afraid to live or worrying every second. But you and your family can be prepared and educated. Know the signs of a stroke. Get your own free stroke warning signs magnet. Its kind of scary to me because both of my parents have had strokes, so I have a genetic predisposition for them. I'm thinking I really need to make sure my family needs to know the signs and my wishes for treatment now. If caught quickly, strokes can be treated. Educate yourself and your family.
I've ordered our free stroke warning signs magnet. You should, too.