Sunday, December 11, 2011

Sunday Surf: Fascinating Stuff & Giveaways!

I have been feeling very, very pregnant. I also feel mostly ready for Spencer's arrival, though I'd like to get past Elmo's vasectomy and recuperation before then. Here are some really fascinating links I've seen this week...

Pregnancy, Birth and the New Sibling: 10 Tips

This has (obviously) been a topic at the forefront of my mind as I prepare to bring a baby brother home to my teen and toddler girls. There are some great suggestions on this list that I hadn't seen elsewhere. I must say, though, I wish I'd seen it sooner!

Also, I love the photo in this article from Birth Without Fear! I kind of want to mimic it myself. It would be perfect, considering how much of Sasha's time is spent naked and how much she likes to be held.


Is Your Baby’s Blue Vein a Sugar Bug?

Just when you think you've read all the weird parenting / health topics... along comes one out of left field. Does your baby have a faint blue line across their nose?

Either way, you'll be amazed at what this little line might be able to tell you! I'd never heard of this! It is a fascinating phenomenon!

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Mothers and babies can instantly synchronize their hearts just by smiling at each other

This is just such a totally cool study! I look forward to seeing where else they take this one. (The article does speculate on that, too.) I think this study opens up a lot of possibilities as far as unknown human capabilities.


Babies' Cells Linger, May Protect Mothers

Did you ever imagine... that you are still carrying a physical part of every child you've ever conceived? This seems to have brought a little peace to a friend that lost twins. This study shows how your babies (born or not) continue to protect you for decades! This article is absolutely worth a read!

Tyler wears Sasha in Boba CarrierTyler wearing Sasha in our Boba Carrier
for a family walk in the night air.
NOTE: Boba foot straps are intended for use with shoes.

Boba Carrier Review & Giveaway!

There are only a few days left on this giveaway! Enter for your chance to win a Boba Wrap, Carrier or Travel Pack! I bet you could get it by Giftmas, if you tried.

Enjoy these links and come back next week for more (assuming I'm not in labor)!

Friday, December 9, 2011

Nursing through Pregnancy - 35 weeks

I haven't had any major discoveries or drastic changes in the past 5 weeks, but I thought that the 5 week mark has made for good updates. I did hear a few swallows while Sasha was nursing recently, but once I paused to actually listen for them, there were none.

The discomfort of just being pregnant and 38 years old has far out run the discomfort of nursing these days. I rarely put up much fight (effort to redirect Sasha) against nursing these days. I'm a bit more patient, though I do have my weaker moments. It is still the non-sleep times that drive me the craziest. My latest distractions are Solitaire and Spider Solitaire. On a bad night, I find my eyes darting around the screen manically, so even those distractions aren't fool proof.

toddler with boppyA familiar site - Sasha will bring me "her" Boppy now, too. This is a big help to my big pregnant self!
Click image for Photo Credit.

I would have to say that I still have all of the weird sensations (pain, discomfort, arousal, and just ODD), but all to lesser degrees since I got my colostrum. I often squeeze a little colostrum out to show Sasha that there is milk in my breast. She acts all excited, but I don't think her latch has actually changed. Occasionally she has even asked me to express a little colostrum for her to see (and taste?).

Bed times range. On a really good night, when I've timed things perfectly, I can nurse her to sleep in 15 minutes and she stays asleep when I put her into her bed. On a bad night, I wind up nursing her for well over an hour, often with several failed attempts to put her into bed. I wish I could tell you what the problem is there, but if I knew I would have already fixed it.

I have to be very aware of her food intake because if she doesn't eat enough dinner (and I don't offer a hefty snack before bed), she will wake often to nurse... still without taking any milk. Now that I am so very huge, laying in her bed is very uncomfortable so I want to avoid this as much as possible. Not to mention the restlessness of getting up to nurse her every hour!

She usually comes into bed with me when Daddy gets up for work (around 3am). Then I am usually able to sleep through nursing. Elmo and I recently discussed how crowded our bed will soon be since it seems there will definitely be occasions for all four of us to be in the bed.

Sasha using BoppySasha nursing her sister's baby doll
on the Boppy cushion
August 2011

As delivery nears, I find my fears are actually at the forefront of my mind less. I'm focusing less attention on worrying about her latch returning as well as worries about Spencer's ability to nurse. I think I just have too many other preparations keeping me busy to waste time worrying. Whatever the cause, it is an improvement!

My doctor tells me that Spencer could easily arrive at 36-37 weeks, so there may not be any more nursing through pregnancy updates. These may (hopefully) turn into tandem nursing updates!

Find the other posts in this series:
  • Nursing through Pregnancy - final weeks (39th week)
  • Nursing through Pregnancy - final weeks (38th week)
  • Nursing through Pregnancy - final weeks (36-37, so far)
  • Nursing through Pregnancy - 35 weeks
  • Nursing through Pregnancy - 29/30 weeks
  • Nursing through Pregnancy - 25 weeks
  • Nursing through Pregnancy - 20 weeks
  • Extended Breastfeeding, So Far! (posted pretty much the weekend I got pregnant!)
  • Wednesday, December 7, 2011

    Wordless Wednesday: Memory Lane

    Tulsa Zoo Bronze TurtleTyler (nearly 8yo) on Bronze Turtle @ Tulsa Zoo
    June 2006

    Tulsa Zoo Bronze TurtleTyler & Sasha on Bronze Turtle @ Tulsa Zoo
    May 2010

    Tyler & Sasha on Bronze Turtle @ Tulsa ZooTyler & Sasha on Bronze Turtle @ Tulsa Zoo
    May 2011

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    Monday, December 5, 2011

    Monday Minimalist: Giftmas

    Tis the season to spend the big bucks, right? How can you save money during the holidays. After all, you can "minimize" your spending as well!

    Electricity

    I understand the desire for Christmas Lights. However, do you need them everywhere? And do you leave your lights on all night long? Put them on a timer or shut them off when you go to bed. Keep your electric bill from going up during the holiday. Also, take the lights down after the holiday!


    Decorations

    No one needs new decorations each year. I know plenty of people that basically collect the stuff! We've actually gotten rid of all of our decorations (it wasn't a LOT anyway) except for a handful of sentimental ornaments, stockings for each of us, and hangers for the stockings.

    Do you have some additional space that needs decorating? Or perhaps you have a desire for new decorations. Craft them! Paper chains and strings of popcorn are fun!

    Commercialism / Gifts

    The retail industry wants you to think that $ = ♥. You do not have to spend a specific amount of money to show that you love someone a particular amount or more than someone else. That sort of competition honestly a little sick, in my opinion.

    Budget

    Consider how much you actually want to spend for the holiday (your entire gift budget). Then you can determine how to split that among your recipients. In fact, really look over that recipient list, too. Do you really need to give to everyone on your list? My list has gotten much smaller over the years, but that is partially due to divorce. (I'm not suggesting you get divorced just to save a buck.)

    Longevity

    Especially when debating gifts for children, think about the longevity of the item. I don't just mean the quality, but also the attention span it will pull. You could also avoid battery operated toys because they cost more money down the road. There are so many options out there that do not require electric or battery power.

    Add-on Toys

    Another possible way to save money is add-on toys. If the child (or even an adult) has a set of some kind (building blocks, race tracks, etc.), you can get additional cars, tracks, or blocks for the set. This will likely cost less that starting from scratch with a new toy. I've also seen this done with pearl necklaces for girls. A single pearl is added each year.


    Homemade

    Then, of course, there are homemade gifts! A box or tin full of homemade cookies or fudge are great! Plus, they don't take up space permanently. You could also make reusable shopping bags. There are a TON of possibilities when it comes to making gifts, even for kids. A couple of years ago, I used a bunch of old jeans pockets to make purses for the little girls on my list. I even embroidered their initials or a cute picture on them and added a snap closure! Using the pockets meant minimal actual sewing!

    Practical

    How do you feel about practical gifts? I know most kids don't want to receive practical stuff, but some really do like it! I especially like practical gifts within our household. If your kids get store bought presents for Mom & Dad, consider using the opportunity for practical stuff. I feel like this doubles the bang for your buck. Hubby needs thermals for work, but it gets put off for other expenses... daughter can give them to him as a gift! Now you've used gift budget, but fulfilled a gift expense and a regular upkeep expense!

    Regifting

    Regifting can be a dangerous option. I actually keep a spreadsheet of gifts I've given (and money I've spent) for Giftmas so I can make sure I don't get someone the same gift I've gotten them before. This also comes in handy for regifting. If you receive an item that just doesn't suit you, you can often return / exchange it. If you can't do that, you can totally save it for regifting! Just be careful that you don't give it back to the same person or household.

    Previously Owned

    How do you feel about used gifts? Some items are easier to get quality used items than others. Used books, for instance. You can even shop for them online and find out the condition before choosing to purchase. You could also go the used option with classic toys or vintage clothes. Yes, some toys are available in redesigned versions, but how much would your adult friend love to get an old, original Game of Life or Light Bright? Sometimes the oldness of an item is precisely the charm!

    DIY Gift WrapClick Image for Photo Credit
    and explanations of each gift wrap.

    Gift Wrap

    My grandmother used to love to save everyone's wrapping paper and reuse it. It seemed silly while everyone was unwrapping their gifts, but I had to admit... I loved the way the sheer variety of paper looked under her tree! These days you can get really cheap gift wrap, but you really do get what you pay for. The cheap stuff often rips before you can get the gift to the recipient!

    Foil

    Aluminum foil is an original idea that I love. You have options, too. You can leave it flat, you can crinkle it, you can use the shiny side or the dull. However, I really don't think it is cheaper than gift wrap. It also isn't less wasteful than any other option. It is handy for times when you just don't HAVE any wrapping paper.

    Brown paper

    Sound boring? I've done brown paper, tied with string, and then used a stamp set to address it like shipping. You could also use stencils or shipping stickers/address labels. I think these make very attractive gifts.

    Newspaper

    I have always loved the idea and the look of using the Sunday Comics (the one day the funnies are in color) as wrapping paper! This is a great way to reuse, if you already get the paper.

    Gift Bags

    I've long seen gift bags as the cop out of the gift giving practice. Gift bags are so much easier to "wrap," but they are nowhere near as fun to open! I have known a lot of people that save them and reuse them, though. I did but then gave them all away in a minimizing fit! That said, I have another gift bag option for you: Wrap Sacks! These are cloth bags you can buy that include individual codes. You can enter the code into the website to track your bag through re-gifting! Each person can enter the code and see where the bag originated and where it has gone. I think this is such a fun idea! Alternatively, you can make your own cloth gift bags as well. One year I made cloth pouches and gave nieces and nephews marbles in them. They made great little carry bags for the marbles. In this way, you can make the wrapping a part of the gift.

    Butcher Paper

    You can use plain white paper or butcher paper to wrap your presents. Kids love to decorate presents like this! They (or you) can use stickers, markers, stencils, whatever! The great thing about butcher paper is you could also use water colors! I made some gorgeous presents that way, but I found I had to re-wrap with wax paper over them because they came out sticky. The added wax paper made for a gorgeous finish! This option is cheap, but not the greenest option if you have to wrap twice.

    Gift Tags

    This is another place where paper gets wasted. What creative alternatives could you use? I love the idea of attaching a mini-gift as part of or a replacement for the gift tag. Perhaps you have one relative that collects... Bugs Bunny. Attach a Bugs Bunny key chain as the gift tag. You know who it is for (though perhaps others won't pick up on the idea right away). You can always claim to be the gift giver rather than having to write your name on a tag. You could also make Shrinky Dink key chains, zipper pulls, etc. that double as gift tags.

    Some of the gift wrap options I mentioned above lend themselves to writing the gift tag directly on the package. Foil, brown paper, butcher paper, etc. all offer this option.

    Santa Greeting CardClick image for Photo Credit and Tutorial Details.

    Holiday Cards

    There are plenty of options here. You can have special cards printed, which is much cheaper if you go with a site like Vista Print. You could also make or have your kids make cards, though! You could do a family newsletter instead of buying cards. Better yet, a family newsletter could not only become an annual tradition, you could offer it digitally (instead of on paper + mailing costs) to those with the capability. Personally, I just don't do cards... for any holiday. If I approach the greeting card section in a store, I get sucked into it. I can't stop reading them until I've spent all day there!

    How do you make it through the holiday without breaking the bank?
    And don't forget that you can recycle paper giftwrap!

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    Sunday, December 4, 2011

    Sunday Surf

    Sasha's communication skills are growing by leaps and bounds! I'm more and more tired each day. Tyler is very busy with rehearsals for A Christmas Carol (she volunteered as crew). They had their first Invitational Dress Rehearsal today! And we're counting down to a vasectomy. We'd like for Spencer to hold out until Daddy can recuperate from that, then he can come along whenever he is ready!

    Now, how about some linkage? Ya ready?

    • Have you been looking for some good, natural toys for the kids on your shopping list? No plastic, no batteries, etc. I highly recommend Born at Home Toys. The couple that make the toys are sweet, peaceful parents and the toys are awesome! I have the Sun and Moon Teether set for our Spencer.

    • Speaking of Giftmas, do you celebrate Santa? If so, you should check out NorthPole.com. We've used it for several years. You can help your child use a form to write a letter to Santa (some of it is free form). Within a few days - you will have a personalized reply! My teenage daughter still looks forward to it as one of our traditions. The site also offers other activities, stories and recipes!

      coinsClick image for Photo Credit.

    • Kind of a depressing one, here, but this is "Poverty in America - Living Wage Calculator" for my county. Oh yeah, we're definitely poverty-stricken. I don't think that comes as a surprise to anyone.

    • Are you pregnant? Do you worry about your baby getting into the proper position for birth? My friend and Belly Buddy, Jennifer from True Confessions of a Real Mommy (and who happens to be in labor today!), shared a link from her doula with me. The Miles Circuit is a series of exercises to help get your baby into position. I'm considering starting to do them myself, though I'm not even doing my other preparation exercises.

      Daddy wearing Sasha in the Boba CarrierDaddy wearing Sasha in our Boba Carrier
      in the grocery store.
    • Don't forget to enter for your chance to win a Boba Wrap, Carrier or Travel Pack! See my Boba Carrier Review & Giveaway!

    And there you have it. I hope you found some interesting and/or helpful stuff. I find myself wondering if/when I might have a week where I am missing a Sunday Surf because I'm birthing!

    Friday, December 2, 2011

    Boba Carrier Review & Giveaway!

    Awhile back I was looking through baby carriers online. I stumbled upon Boba. They make wraps and carriers, both. There was one thing that immediately jumped out at me about their carrier, something that made them stand apart from all the other carriers I've seen: patent-pending removable foot straps. I wrote to Boba and requested to be considered for review and hopefully a giveaway for my readers.

    My Boba Carrier arrived very quickly! The packaging was nice, very professional. There were some inserts, brochures and the like. The largest of which (glossy, by the way), I suspected to be a catalog. Think again. It was an instruction manual complete with step by step photographs to accompany the details. It is written in several (8) languages.

    Wednesday, November 30, 2011

    Wordless Wednesday: Play Date

    Sasha's First PlaydateSasha's First Playdate
    August 2010

    Sasha's First PlaydateLeilani, Aiden & Sasha
    Aiden tried to bite Sasha's ear!

    Click on over to the Natural Parents Network Wordless Wednesday to see more Playgroup photographs and to link up your own Wordless Wednesday post!
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